Friendship is a Priceless Gift

Friendship is a Priceless Gift
It cannot be bought or sold
But it value is far greater
than a mountain made of Gold.
For Gold is cold and lifeless
it can neither see nor hear
and in the time of trouble
It is powerless to cheer
It has no ears to listen
nor heart to understand
It cannot bring you comfort
or reach out a helping hand
So when you ask God for a Gift
be thankfull if He sends...
not diamond, pearls, or riches
but the love of Real True Friend
~Helen Steiner RIce~

We meet by a chance that we could not find it nor buy it (how rich we are...true friend and true friendship could not be bought) and turn into a friend. God has His own plans when He introduces someone turn into our life. He may sends someone just for a short period or longer period, or forever. And now is our destiny keeps us close each others making our friendship grow more with the passing time. Why i call it's our destiny?? coz if our destiny says that we could not be a friend nor if the destiny says that our friendship is no longer there, even if there are so hard efforts to keep it alive-it could not work, coz He already plan it for us.

However, it does not mean bad if He send friends only for a short time period. Nothing is negative in His plan. We have to think it deeply to understand on His plan. It is not easy to find and to understand. But just believe that time will tell us the truth and the meaning of all those.

None of us can say nor claim that we are an Angel for others. Even if so, we say that to the new people and hope with that 'word' we can be their friend, i dont believe it could works. That is not a 'magic word' in this Universe nowadays. None of us can do this!!!. Only God can do it. It will be wise, if we do not say or assume that he or she claims themselves to be our Angel just to attract our attention to become their friend. This is totally wrong perseption. None of us have Rights to do this.

Friendship is a choice, it is free from hatred, it's a freedom for us to decide based on our destiny and our understanding of God's plans, it is not coercion. No one can enforce a friendship.

I would like to say:

Walk with me when your heart needs accompany and trust me, take my hand when you feel alone-even if nothing i can do for you, turn to me when you need someone to learn and share together with.....nothing i can promise to you except i always be with you in all your sadness time instead your happilly time"

For me: Real and True Friendship is a rare relationship in this Universe nowadays. That the Treasure given by God more than diamond nor pearl that need to be flushed and fertilizer it with love and heart everytime, everywhere to keep it alive and shining along with the Sun shinning which never forget to come into our life every morning till afternoon and shining along with the Moon which will replace the Sun in enlightening our night to be more brightly.

~Please bear in mind that I have no rights to claim myself as an 'Angel' in someone life~

~Respect people who find time for us in their busy life and schedule, BUT Love people who never look at their schedule and time when we need them...that is the Real and True Friendship~

ps note: dedicate this to my real and true friend who always be with me in my insomnia time:) everynight....love you, thanks for your value time buddy:)

Think first, act later

Think First and Act Later

As the above subject, as a human i think the important thing in life is Think First and Act Later not the other way.

Once day, Gabriel introduce Jennifer to Donna and  Donna accepted her as my new friend. Donna doesn't know who is Jennifer, what is her background and so on and so on. But Donna doesn't care as a people who try to have positive thinking in life, in her mind she should not asking to much except just to accepted her friendship. Their friendship is a vitrtual friendship as Jennifer was not living at London.

One day she is so kind and made effort to come to London to meet all her virtual friends and made it become a real friend instead of virtual friends. They are so happy coz finally they can made this virtual friendship become a real friendship. A short trip among them was really valuable for all of them. Since Jennifer was not living at London, she bring all the stuffs as a gift for everybody. They appreciate on her efforts.

Long and short after they met each other, the friendship was getting close among the member of this friendship cycle. Each of us are respect each other and tried to help friend who needed assistance. Everyone in this cyrcle was expecting to have a real and ever lasting friendship.

One day Jenifer got an idea to have a holiday together again and she got her own schedule already and asked for others to follow her schedule. unfortunately, her friends could not made it to macth on her schedule. She was angry and without asking for the reasons she was upset with her friends. She then wrote her mind in the piece of paper. This is the way she tried to relieve her upset. She has never though that once day her words in that piece of paper was read by her friend and trigger a back ball to her.

Her friend who has read that paper is surpraise but she kept quite and questioned what happen with Jennifer. But due to her tight schedule, Donna has never got time to ask and forgot it already coz Donna think that there was no issue came from her side. Till one day, Jenifer asked Donna whether Donna got mad to her due to that paper. Donna surpraise on this, and though what is the relationship on all of these. Donna did not get an answer. But in Donna's heart she keeps hoping that their friendship can be back to the initial time, to the real friendship without any misunderstanding and intention to break it.

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There always a good chance to fix all the wrong ways of thinking and behaviour happen with and or without certain intention on that, as long as there is positive action coming from. It may takes time and efforts but no harm to fix it as earlier as we can. And the moral of the above story is: Think First and Act Later not the other way.

ps note: the above story is fiction.If there is similarity of name and place-there is no such intention to do that.