Thursday, November 8, 2012

Think first, act later

Think First and Act Later

As the above subject, as a human i think the important thing in life is Think First and Act Later not the other way.

Once day, Gabriel introduce Jennifer to Donna and  Donna accepted her as my new friend. Donna doesn't know who is Jennifer, what is her background and so on and so on. But Donna doesn't care as a people who try to have positive thinking in life, in her mind she should not asking to much except just to accepted her friendship. Their friendship is a vitrtual friendship as Jennifer was not living at London.

One day she is so kind and made effort to come to London to meet all her virtual friends and made it become a real friend instead of virtual friends. They are so happy coz finally they can made this virtual friendship become a real friendship. A short trip among them was really valuable for all of them. Since Jennifer was not living at London, she bring all the stuffs as a gift for everybody. They appreciate on her efforts.

Long and short after they met each other, the friendship was getting close among the member of this friendship cycle. Each of us are respect each other and tried to help friend who needed assistance. Everyone in this cyrcle was expecting to have a real and ever lasting friendship.

One day Jenifer got an idea to have a holiday together again and she got her own schedule already and asked for others to follow her schedule. unfortunately, her friends could not made it to macth on her schedule. She was angry and without asking for the reasons she was upset with her friends. She then wrote her mind in the piece of paper. This is the way she tried to relieve her upset. She has never though that once day her words in that piece of paper was read by her friend and trigger a back ball to her.

Her friend who has read that paper is surpraise but she kept quite and questioned what happen with Jennifer. But due to her tight schedule, Donna has never got time to ask and forgot it already coz Donna think that there was no issue came from her side. Till one day, Jenifer asked Donna whether Donna got mad to her due to that paper. Donna surpraise on this, and though what is the relationship on all of these. Donna did not get an answer. But in Donna's heart she keeps hoping that their friendship can be back to the initial time, to the real friendship without any misunderstanding and intention to break it.
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There always a good chance to fix all the wrong ways of thinking and behaviour happen with and or without certain intention on that, as long as there is positive action coming from. It may takes time and efforts but no harm to fix it as earlier as we can. And the moral of the above story is: Think First and Act Later not the other way.

ps note: the above story is fiction.If there is similarity of name and place-there is no such intention to do that.

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