The real Friendship

Robin Thicke
Lost Without U
Evolution of Robin Thicke
Im lost without u
Cant help myself
How does it feel
to know that I love u baby
Im lost without u
Cant help myself
How does it feel
to know that I love u baby
Tell me how u love me more
And how u think Im sexy baby
That u dont want nobody else
U dont want this guy u dont want that guy u wanna
Touch yourself when u see me
Tell me how u love my body
And how I make u feel baby
U wanna roll with me u wanna hold with me
U wanna stay warm and get out of the cold with me
I just love 2 hear u say it
It makes a man feel good baby
Tell me u depend on me
I need 2 hear it.......

One day I got this song from the One that I really respect, caring and love. Before that, I even do not know this song. Even though this title of song is "Lost Without You" but the song itself is not a sad song. That is a very nice song. I put it in all my phone including Ipod :)

Then i wrote to her but i think the message was not reached due to error in the social media that i used. I wrote as follows:

"When you have nothing to be offered (cos you are nobody)...only honest, trustworthy,caring and love that you can offer, but if Others can accept you as one of the people that they love and caring too-that called True and Real Friendship"

For me: True and Real Friend is always be with us in every single moment that our friend need it, no matter how difficult it will be, whenever and where ever we are, with no conditional and no reasons.

Thanks to let me 'in' your life to become one of your true and real friend, which we can share on all life perspective with no fear that each other will cheat on us one day. Thanks to love me as one of your sister. Also thanks to teach me to use 'heart'

Dedicated to: my sister that i love and care with no reasons:)

U Make My World More Colorful:)

#Chorus…..You make my world so colorful
I never had it so good
My love I thank you for all the love
You gave to me…..# by Daniel Sahuleka

People come and go in our life with reasons - to become family, colleague, business partners, friends, real friends, victims etc. Sometimes we can have positive thinking of that reasons but sometime we may have negative thinking of it. The negative thinking may be triggered by the careful behavior or coz we have not enough time to think it deeply or may be coz we don’t care on it.

Some people come and go easily in our life, some people come easily but hardly go from our life, some people hardly come and easy go, some is hardly come and also hardly go. Why this kind of thing can happen in life? Why there is no forever and ever relationship in life?

God has His own plans for us. Whatever the reasons are, God’s plans are the right and the best plans for us, even though may be God’s plans are different with ours.  God has His own time for us, which may different with ours. Whatever it is, just believe it that God has His best plans for us at His right time.

An attraction can happen spontaneously but lasting relation takes work . Hence we have to understand that we have to participate on it once God sending people in to our life. We must appreciate all people that God sends to us, try to start the relationship with positive thinking and we should not take any advantage on it. For me-Gives is better than TakesJ

One night I ever thought that my life is so plain, I called it “no color at all”, from morning to another morning with all constant events in life, while I see many people’s life are so colorful which makes me jealousJ .

I remember that night I told one of friend on that thought.  And her respond is quite surprise for me, she said: your life will not plain coz I was here for you. This respond make me realize that sometime we even don’t have correct thinking of our life, we do not appreciate our life.

God sends best people to paint life become more colorful. They contribute in painting it by their best in my life. Thanks for that All!!! J  will do the same for your lifeJ.

O ya, I ever wrote in FB and Twitter: whatever people would like to say and think that they make our life better than before, our hearth will know who should we thankful to. When I published this thought, I did not mention any names coz I believe that people who I refer to, realize that he/she is the one that I referring toJ  

Thanks to read this noteJ This is just a note from me that I write it from the deepest of my heart about my feelingJ. I am not an author, and I think I am not an expert in writing but I am really best in writing of tax advice only J J

Notes:

-         1.  This note is dedicated to all my friends

-       2.    Thanks to TP who ever dedicated her writing in her blog for me-sorry just realize it after 1 year being posted J

3. Special thanks to cici ZZ who has been chosen to become my sister, my best friend, to care of meJ,who make my life more colorfulJ now. You are the fabulous Bday’s present from God to me this yearJ. 


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Friendship

Seorang tetangga menyebarkan gosip mengenai tetangganya. Dalam beberapa hari saja seluruh lingkungan mengetahui cerita tersebut.Tetangga yang dibicarakan tersebut akhirnya juga mengetahui fitnah yang tersebar tersebut.

Beberapa hari kemudian, orang yang menyebar luaskan gosip tersebut menyadari bahwa ternyata gosip yang dia sebarkan memang tidak benar adanya. Dia menyesal lalu datang kepada orang bijaksana untuk mencari tahu apa yang harus dia lakukan untuk memperbaiki kesalahannya tersebut.

Kata orang bijak kepadanya: pergilah ke pasar, belilah kemoceng kemudian dalam perjalanan pulang cabutilah bulu kemoceng tersebut dan buanglah satu per satu di sepanjang jalan pulang tersebut.

Meski terkejut mendengar nasehat tersebut, namun si penytebar gosip tetap melakukannya karena dia ingin memperbaiki kesalahannya. keesokan harinya, si penyebar gosip melapor kepada orang bijaksana bahwa dia telah melaksanakan nasehat orang tersebut.

Orang bijak berkata: sekarang pergilah dan kumpulkan kembali semua bulu kemoceng yang kau buang kemarin dan bawa kepadaku. Orang tersebut melakukannya dengan menyusuri jalan kemarin, namun angin telah melemparkan bulu bulu tersebut ke segala arah. Setelah berusaha mengumpulkan dengan bersusah payah, dia kembali kepada orang bijak dengan tiga helai bulu saja.

Kata orang bijak:lihat kan? sangat mudah melempar sesuatu namun tak kan mungkin untuk mengumpulkannya kembali dengan utuh.

Pesan moral si orang bijak:

1. hidup mati serseorang dikuasai lidah, siapa suka menggemakannya, dia akan memakan buahnya. Lidah yang lembut adalah pohon kehidupan. Namun lidah yang jahat adalah lidah yang melukai hati orang lain.

2. Kejujuran itu mahal harganya dan tidak setiap orang dapat menghargai suatu kejujuran. Manakala kejujuran telah dinomorduakan, maka akan ada harga mahal yang harus dibayar

3. apabila kita tidak ingin ada bekas luka, maka janganlah kita memaku paku di hati dan mencabutnya kembali. karena paku yang sudah dipakukan dan dicabut dari tempatnya akan menimbulkan luka dalam yang tidak bisa disembuhkan oleh berlalunya waktu kecuali kita berusaha untuk menambalnya kembali dengan bahan lain. luka itu akan tertambal, namun sudah tidak bisa kembali normal.

4. Tidak perlu menyimpan suatu kemarahan hanya karena disebabkan oleh adanya kebohongan dimana kejujuran telah dinomor duakan. Biarlah waktu yang akan membantu untuk menghilangkan amarah tersebut.

5. Sahabat yang baik adalah sahabat yang senantiasa ada di kala kita susah dan selalu jujur kepadanya. Sahabat yang baik adalah sahabat yang selalu mengingatkan kepada sahabatnya untukk tidak melakukan hal2 yang tidak benar.

6. Seorang sahabat akan memukul kita dengan maksud baik, namun dia tidak akan menggunting dalam lipatan

Dipost di FB tgl 28 June 2010

Sebuah Luka

Suatu hari sekelompok anak sibuk merancang suatu perjalanan yang menyenangkan.mereka berencana untuk pergi ke tempat yang indah dimana belum pernah mereka kunjungi. Tiba2 mereka teringat kepada sahabatnya. Kemudian mereka sepakat untuk turut serta mengajak sahabat tersebut. Sahabat tersebut gembira, namun dia berkata janganlah pergi di bulan juni, juli dan oktober karena dia sedang disibukkan oleh pekerjannya. Sekelompok anak tersebut kemudian setuju dg usul dari sahabat tersebut.

Suatu hari tanpa disangka2, salah satu anak dari sekelompok anak tadi menyadarai bahwa ternyata sahabat yg diajak turut serta tadi telah menambil ide2 mereka dan merancang perjalanannya sendiri dengan orang lain. Oleh karena takut diketahui oleh sekelompok anak tersebut, maka sahabat itupun terpaksa memberitahukan kepada salah satu anak tersebut bahwa dia terpaksa dan dipaksa pergi oleh temannya.dan dia memberitahukan bahwa kepergiannya itu adalah mendadak tanpa direncanakan sebelumnya.
Anak tersebut begitu terkejut dengan info tersebut dan berusaha untuk memahami sahabatnya itu.namun setelah dikaji lebih lanjut, maka anak tersebut sangat kecewa dengan perbuatan sahabatnya itu.anak tersebut kecewa bukan karena dia tidak diajak turut serta oleh sahabat, namun dia baru menyadari bahwa sahabatnya dimana dia selalu mengalah ternyata sudah tega membohonginya. Keesokan harinya terkuaklah fakta bahwa si sahabat telah merancang semuanya setelah mengambil ide dari sekelompok anak tersebut.
Anak tersebut demikian terkejutnya saat dia tahu bahwa sahabatnya telah mendapatkan ijin satu minggu sebelum kepergian sahabat tersebut.sadarlah anak itu bahwa sahabat yg demikian dihormati dan disayangi itu telah tega berbohong kepadanya. Anak itu menanyakan kepada sahabatnya mengapa engkau tega melakukan semua ini. Jawab sahabat itu kepadanya: aku terpaksa krn sibuk sehingga belum sempat memberi kabar selain itu ijinpun belum didapat dengan pasti.

Anak tersebut demikian hancur hatinya krn ia tau bahwa sahabatnya telah mempertahankan kebohongannya.dia memaafkan sahabatnya tersebut, namun hatinya hancur, sehingga dia memutuskan untuk pergi jauh dari sahabat tersebut sampai dia mampu untuk menyembuhkan luka bathinnya tersebut.

it has been posted at FB on 29 June 2010

New Year Eve 2012-God will always lead our way,just trust it!!

Sebuah kilas balik dan renungan

2011 adalah tahun penuh dengan memori. Tahun penuh kejutan. Tahun penuh dengan kesedihan dan kegembiraan, tahun penuh dengan gejolak, emosi, pembuktian diri, pencapaian ambisi . Tahun dimana penuh dengan situasi dan kondisi yg harus dihadapi dan mengharuskan membuat keputusan-keputusan berani dalam hidup.Tidak semua keputusan yang diambil selama tahun 2011 adalah benar, namun dengan motivasi dan pembuktian diri-Puji Tuhan, keputusan tersebut menjadi benar adanya (dan sebagian mudah-mudahan pun menjadi benar adanya).

Masalah datang silih berganti bagaikan  ombak besar menghantam batu karang yang terlihat kokoh berdiri, gelombang laut pasang surut menunjukkan bahwa tidak ada yang abadi, tidak ada kondisi yang tetap tanpa adanya perubahan.

Teriknya matahari terkadang membakar kulit hingga terbakar parah, hujan deras kerap datang disertai badai yang hadir tanpa diharapkan. Namun harus diyakini bahwa semua hujan deras dan badai hebat itu akan berakhir-akan ada saat dimana itu semua berakhir tergantikan oleh sinar matahari yang menyejukkan.

Awal tahun 2011 adalah saat dimana ada satu peristiwa yang menyulut emosi dan perasaan. Saat dimana kamu berbuat sangat baik tanpa pamrih, saat dimana kepercayaan diberikan, namun semua itu terasa sia-sia saat kamu dihianati, saat dimana pertanyaan dilontarkan, namun dibantah, tidak ada pengakuan sama sekali atas kekeliruan yang telah dilakukan. Pun tiada maaf yang terlontarkan. Hening tiada terkira sehingga berakhir dengan satu keputusan kekanak2an. Keputusan yang akhirnya dirasakan oleh pihak tersebut meskipun tiada komunikasi yang dilakukan. Namun demikian, tetap tak ada kata maaf yang dilontarkan padahal sangat didambakan. Waktu bergulir dengan cepat diiringi dengan kesadaran akan betapa berharganya sebuah persahabatan yg harus dipertahankan-prinsip bahwa “mengalah tidak berarti kalah” pun dilakukan tanpa pamrih.

Sebuah kejadian yang membuat luka di hati pun terjadi di pertengahan tahun 2011, dimana sebuah perasaan tertipu pun terjadi-yang menghasilkan tindakan emosi yang menciptakan serangkaian kejadian-kejadian berikut yang menguras perhatian, hati dan perasaan sampai akhir tahun 2011. Pun di malam New Year Eve ini, keputusan final belum dilakukan.

Di penghujung tahun, terdapat kejadian yang tidak pernah disangka. Tuhan mempertemukan seseorang yang tidak pernah disangka dan diduga. It’s amazing, Tuhan selalu punya rencana yang tidak dimengerti oleh manusia. Hanya melalui sebuah kejadian yang sangat simple, ini semua terjadi. Sebuah Persahabatan yang tidak terjangkau sebelum (serasa bagai pungguk merindukan bulan), Persahabatan yang terasa sangat tidak mungkin, namun merupakan sebuah Persahabatan yang sekarang sungguh terjadi yang penuh makna.

Dengan rangkaian kejadian-kejadian selama 2011, bahwa Tuhan sangat baik, meskipun terkadang kita tidak mengerti apa yang Dia lakukan terhadap kita, meskipun dalam keadaan terpuruk kita selalu menyalahkanNya, meskipun waktu Dia dengan waktu kita sangat berbeda, keinginanNya dan keinginan kita tidak sejalan, namun pasti Dia selalu memiliki rencana yang baik untuk kita. Kita hanya perlu berdoa, berharap, tetap semangat. Keep the good Faith.

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you have lost. Move on as life is not meant to be travelled backwards.

Let’s end this year 2011 (let it become a memory in mind and heart) with grateful hope and wish that all happiness and joy, success and friendship that have been provided to us by God will remain with us, and be ready to receive all the happiness, joy and prosperity, greater success, treasure friendship in the coming year 2012.

My Lovely Quotes

Work your hardest. Think your smartest. Dream your biggest. Be your greatest. Love you fullest. Smile your brightest! @ihatequotes


Life's too short to worry about the little things. Enjoy what you have today, not what you might get tomorrow @ihatequotes


Don't cry over the past, it's gone. Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived. Live in the present & make it beautiful. #ihatequotes

When we pray, God hears more than we say, answers more than we ask, gives more than we imagine..in His own time & His own way.. #ihatequotes

Don't let people bring you down.Stand up for your right, show them what you got. You have right, to do what you want @infogadis


when you hit ROCK BOTTOM there are no other way but to BOUNCED BACK UP! so consider this a a BLESSING @zarazettirazr


Sometimes we only see what we want to see and we missed what He would like to show to us. We made mistakes, Him Never! @zarazettirazr


When we're in trouble we said: God where r U?He is there all the time within ourself.But we didn't realize coz we are occupied with problems @zarazettirazr


It's Believe that gets is there - dragonfly the movie - when u have faith, u will see beyond your sight @zarazettirazr


I never ask U for anything because i believe U. That U know what I need more than myself and U will give what I deserve. Nite all @zarazettirazr


When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life you have a thousand reasons to smile :) @andriewongso


Best friend is the one you could sit on a porch, never saying a word & then walk away feeling that was the best conversation you’ve had @ihatequotes


Tears can sometimes be more special than smiles, for smiles can be given to anyone, but tears are only shed for people we love @ihatequotes


If you believe, not necessarily ur wish will come true, but at least ur life will be easier....and hope is always there @zarazettirazr


Those who never experience sadness will measure their happiness from other's achievement and will be forever looking for that happiness @zarazettirazr


Happiness is for us to share, while sadness is a learning process to understand the true meaning of happiness @zarazettirazr


The source of happiness must come within yourself because you cant control what's in the outside and it will lead you to frustration @zarazettirazr


The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage. The secret of courage is believe @zarazettirazr


You cannot give what you don’t have. You cannot forgive what you can’t forget. But you can love even if you’re not being loved back @ihatequotes


Every teardrop is precious, u can never pick them up & put them back to ur eyes. So make sure that if u drop some, it’s worth crying for @ihatequotes


We Come To Love Not By Finding a Perfect Person, But By Learning To See An Imperfect Person Perfectly @eileenrachman


Dont be too long crying over anything. Things u're crying about right now sometimes are things you'll be grateful for later. -@AmandaAdriani

When you let go of what your haters sent you, you have room enough to receive what God has already given you @ihatequotes


5 simple rules to be happy: Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less @ihatequotes


God always has something for you: a key for every problem,a light for every shadow, a relief for every sorrow & a plan for every tomorrow @thenotebook


Don't block your dreams by allowing fear to grow bigger than faith. Be brave! Have faith and move on! #ihatequotes

Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still feel you can go on @tracyagustina


All people have problems. Life is unfair, but it's unfair to everyone. So, life's fair. Everybody just need to fight for it! #ihatequotes

Dont worry about what people think about you, because they arent thinking about you  @eileenrachman

Sometimes we only see what we want to see and we missed what He would like to show to us. We made mistakes, Him Never! @zarazettirazr

By @ivanna_ve

All decisions that have been taken, has consequences. No one can control it when they made decisions.Hence, some may resulted regrets at end. Too many considerations will create confuse,confusing will create no decision at all.without any consideration,decision may not correct


If we forgive something easily cause God teaches that, and wish there is no similar thing happen,but it happen again and again. So how?


It's not easy to fix heart that are being hurt,but does it worth to cry on that?understand that crying will not provide solution.but  if tears just come out of our control, does it ok?I think so-cause we are human.no one as strong as God whohasnever cry on his suffering


Don't' trust to money even money is important, as money can bring u in the deep sh*t


Even in the desperate situation, we must have our self esteem. We can lose everything but we must not lose our pride and self esteem


Even in the desperate situation, we must let God to lead our way and believe in Him that nothing is impossible for us if He gives us way out


Sometimes we need heavy rain to be able for us to cry without let people know what inside of our heart

At certain point&condition;, sometimes we lost our track due to sadness, if that so, should rationality or emotional must be used to take decision?


If u feel that things go wrong,pls remember that God always be with u even His time is nit the same w/us but His is the Right one

Unpredicted Rendezvous

Afternoon on 24 December 2011 , i was flying with one of the famous Airline in Indonesia, back from mu holiday at Bali to Jakarta (my hometown).

It was amazing rendezvous happen that afternoon. I met ex my team member at the previous Consulting Company. He was standing in the Flight and gave a greetings for all the passengers. He decided to change his career from a consultant to be a Flight Attendant 3 years ago. I interviewed him and decided to hire him to be a junior consultant. From the day one of his joining, I was his mentor.

At that afternoon, he did the new tricks during the 1.5 hours of flight which has never been done by any other Airlines in this world (as i knew). He attracted all passengers' attention by calling his team member (flight attendants) with the horor's name are: "Nyai Blorong", "Nyi Pelet" and "Nyai Dasima" when these three flight attendants want to show the safety ways to the passengers which normally did it by all airlines.

For sure, he was successful in getting all passengers' attention. He told me that he did it in every flight with the specific different name for his team member without informed his team. Before landing, he also announced the passenger's name who got birthday, he sang a "happy birthday" song but used the different melody. At the end of his song he got big applause from all passengers.

He just started his new journey 2 years ago became one of the flight attendant, and today he got promoted become Senior Flight Attendant, level that allowed to be come an announcer in the flight and coordinate team during the flight. It was a fast track promotion, I guess.

So, I proud of him with his achievement, a team member who i had become his mentor from day 1, enjoy the team work, and also has ever angry with him in order to meet very tight deadline,angry when he submitted the resignation letter and leave the deadline for me to handle by myself (1 day before the deadline). His dream became true now.

Being a Good Leader, I feel proud of him with all his achievement today. Even though we got taft working session at that time, got angry from me, but he has never changed his mind. He always keep in touch with me. Good luck my friend and keep the good work.

Dedicated to: S.H.S