A prayer for u in your birth day

When we missing someone that we used to love but due to some reasons we couldnt forgive them, what should we do except just sending prayer?

So I m sending you my prayer as part of the birthday greeting...happy birthday to you, wish you all the best. I wish God can remind you to be a good person, good citizen, love people that love you, stop hurting people who love you genuinely, love the country that already gave you everything in your life.
Beside all the things that you hurt me in the past, I always remember all the lessons that you shared with me, all love and care that you gave to me which I understand now that it might not a genuine love given to me but I respect that, will always remember all the good and bad memories that we have.

Thanks for being part of my life, thanks for being proud of me in your life....I wish you happy with the life that you choose now....once again happy birthday!!

Miss you so much even I still couldnt forgive you😞...may be one day....

For you..the one that already hurt me too deeply who are celebrate birthday on this day 5 August 2015

I have never say goodbye to you..I just close my chapter of life from you after you hurt me to deeply.

Till we meet again......with the new better chapter.....

Everything happen for a reason...

Everything happen for a reason...

You came into my life
You came into my path
You touched my feeling
You put effort in the beginning
You used the same ways with someone i love when you try to touch my feeling
You used the same ways with someone i love when you gave your attention to me
You gave me your attention
You gave me your time
You teach me on how to deal with the difficult situation
You raise me up when i felt down
You cheers me during my sadness time

And...everything happen for a reason....

I wonder why we could be closed each other during this very short time
I wonder why you use the same ways in touching my feeling
I wonder why you gave me your attention
I wonder why you gave me your time
I wonder why you teach me to deal with the difficult situation
I wonder why you raise me up when I felt down
I wonder why you cheers me during my sadness time

And....everything happen for a reason....

Thankyou for your attention
Thankyou for your valuable time
Thankyou for involving me into your life
Thankyou for being with me in my sadness time
Thankyou for cheers me up
Thankyou for raising me up

And...everything happen for a reason......

Now, choice has been chosen
Life is all about choice
Even to me this is not a choice and why should this happen to us?
Yes we are coming from the different background
We have different vision of life
But to me, due to those differences, God united us
I hope...........i feel....

And...everything happen for a reason......

I ever promised that one day I will wrote about you in my blog
and here I go, I wrote this for you
hoping you read this
Even though I have never thought that this note will coming in this very short time
Even though I have never thought that this is the subject that I should wrote on you

And...everything happen for a reason......

I asked for patient
I asked for understanding
You promised me but....

But...it may be to many requests for you.....

Everything happen for a reason..

Hoping not happen to us...


Everything happen for a reason...




Till we see again.....

It's good to see you again

Hey you, it's good to see you

You look good, your hair's gotten longer

Two years, time really flies by, I'm glad we did this

It's really been so long

since we're here, I think it's time we talk about things

Talk about the past and the pain

People change, life's too short to live in anger

It's time to forgive

So go on, tell me everything

Don't leave any details out

If you found love, I'll be happy for you

I promise – it's good to see you again

No one, makes me laugh like you do

It's a gift, a very special talent

It's like, time froze right around us, except you're looking better

Then even I remembered

I must admit, part of me was scared to see you

Afraid I would get butterflies

But the time and distance that we created has helped that subside

Well, we're almost done here, let's ask for the bill

No, let me get this one please, next one you'll pay

After all this time, being here with you still feels the same

So, don't be a stranger in my life

Please keep me posted

If you need me, just pick up the phone and I'll be there

No questions' asked

It's good to see you again

So good to see you again

A song by Scott Allan 'it's good to see you again' is really my heart’s said on our meeting moment again. Really appreciate it. The moment that i have never thought about...i just realized that date is an important date for you even though you made it faster 2 days but i always remember that is a special date. I always remember my promise to the one who you really love.

I m not to try to impress you...i m happy to be me...I may not be perfect...I may not as beauty as you...but I m honest, loving, caring, and happy. I never try to be anything that i m not and i m not here to impress anyone else...coz I m me with all that i have and we don’t have...that's me. I have never had negative intended to anyone. 

Time moved so fast and now realize how beautiful the moments were that we have, remember the path we are together...the love which i could not stop it...the caring that i could not stop it...your love...your caring that i could not forgot it...all those memories that we had...the moment of silent, laughing, crying, anger, happiness and sadness......it's really depressed and sad time for being lost you in life....

So if you can accept me as I m...let's start our life journey together again...It's good to see you again and hope this will be no end and it's everlasting. 

The Serenity Prayer

If we cant change the world we are living in as per what we want, as per what we wish...event after we put hard effort on it, it's a time to change our mind set, change the way we look this world, and accept it, make a peace with logic and heart..let go all the things which hurt...

Sun always rise in the morning, and disappear at night. Moon always come back at night and disappear in the morning but they never broken their promises to come back again everyday without any command and without expecting any type of rewads.

That unconditional love...that's The Serenity Prayer...Serenity to accept the things we cant change. The courage to change the things we can and The wisdom to know the difference. Amen

Nothing is coincident

Never expect….

Never assume….

Never ask…

Never demand…

Just let it be

If it’s meant to be, it will happen

Nothing is coincident

God created a soul and lend body to us, give us love and intelligent to be a human to reflect Him in this earth

God has created a blueprint for us since our birth date to the death date

He gave everything that we need not we want

Basically we are nothing in front of God…

Hence….none of that we have, none of that we own should make us become an arrogant person

We are nothing in front of Him

God created others and send them into our life with special purpose which only He knows it. None of us know it till we live it….even till we live it, most of the time we still could not understand on His purposes.

He sends us to others, become one of the family member by blood, he could be also send us to others to be one of the family member even if we don’t have blood relationship.

He sends us to the group of people

He sends us to someone special

He sends someone special to us

But

He also has His plan, His purpose to take us out from the group of people we joint with

He can take us out from someone special’s life

He can send us to wherever He has plan already

He has His time…and His time is perfect

He has never forget on His promise to us

He has never broke His promise to us

What we need to do is just Trust Him and keeps the Faith on Him

He will not give us the easier way to earn all the things that He already plan for us

He may give tests to us to ensure that we entitle to earn it

Likewise FRIENDSHIP relation that He gives.

There is no an easy way for people to create a relationship

Friendship needs a seed, plant it, puts fertilizer on it

Friendship is not only full with laugh and happiness only

God put sad stories on it, emotion on it

Not to break that friendship but more to test the strongest of that friendship

To test the genuine of that friendship

To test the genuine of the heart involving into those friendships

To test the unconditional love of people involving there

On top of those, just Trust Him and keep the Faith, nothing is coincident; He created us with the blueprint already.

PS note: for someone who I treated as beloved sister, who I texting her every day even when she gets mad with me; my love will forever
Jakarta 8 May 2015 at 18:46pm

Apa yang terlihat belum tentu yg sebenarnya terlihat

Sebuah kapal pesiar mengalami kecelakaan di laut dan akan segera tenggelam. Sepasang suami istri b erlari menuju ke skoci untuk menyelamatkan diri. Sampai di sana, mereka menyadari bahwa hanya ada tempat untuk satu orang yang tersisa. Segera sang suami melompat mendahului istrinya untuk mendapatkan tempat itu. Sang istri hanya bisa menatap kepadanya sambil meneriakkan sebuah kalimat sebelum skoci menjauh dan kapal itu benar-benar menenggelamkannya.

Guru yang menceritakan kisah ini bertanya pada murid-muridnya,
“Menurut kalian, apa yang istri itu teriakkan?”

Sebagian besar murid-murid itu menjawab,
“Aku benci kamu!”
“Kamu tau aku buta!!”
“Kamu egois!”
“Nggak tau malu!”

Tapi guru itu kemudian menyadari ada seorang murid yang diam saja. Guru itu meminta murid yang diam saja itu menjawab. Kata si murid,
“Guru, saya yakin si istri pasti berteriak, ‘Tolong jaga anak kita baik-baik’”.

Guru itu terkejut dan bertanya,
“Apa kamu sudah pernah dengar cerita ini sebelumnya?”

Murid itu menggeleng.
“Belum. Tapi itu yang dikatakan oleh mama saya sebelum dia meninggal karena penyakit kronis.”

Guru itu menatap seluruh kelas dan berkata,
“Jawaban ini benar.”

Kapal itu kemudian benar-benar tenggelam dan sang suami membawa pulang anak mereka sendirian.

Bertahun-tahun kemudian setelah sang suami meninggal, anak itu menemukan buku harian ayahnya. Di sana dia menemukan kenyataan bahwa, saat orangtuanya naik kapal pesiar itu, mereka sudah mengetahui bahwa sang ibu menderita penyakit kronis dan akan segera meninggal. Karena itulah, di saat darurat itu, ayahnya memutuskan mengambil satu-satunya kesempatan untuk bertahan hidup. Dia menulis di buku harian itu,
“Betapa aku berharap untuk mati di bawah laut bersama denganmu. Tapi demi anak kita, aku harus membiarkan kamu tenggelam sendirian untuk selamanya di bawah sana.”

Cerita itu selesai. Dan seluruh kelas pun terdiam.

Guru itu tahu bahwa murid-murid sekarang mengerti moral dari cerita tersebut, bahwa kebaikan dan kejahatan di dunia ini tidak sesederhana yang kita sering pikirkan.
Ada berbagai macam komplikasi dan alasan di baliknya yang kadang sulit dimengerti.

Karena itulah kita seharusnya jangan pernah melihat hanya di luar dan kemudian langsung menghakimi, apalagi tanpa tahu apa-apa.

Mereka yang sering membayar untuk orang lain, mungkin bukan berarti mereka kaya, tapi karena mereka menghargai hubungan daripada uang.

Mereka yang bekerja tanpa ada yang menyuruh, mungkin bukan karena mereka bodoh, tapi karena mereka menghargai konsep tanggung jawab.

Mereka yang minta maaf duluan setelah bertengkar, mungkin bukan karena mereka bersalah, tapi karena mereka menghargai orang lain.

Mereka yang mengulurkan tangan untuk menolongmu, mungkin bukan karena mereka merasa berhutang, tapi karena menganggap kamu adalah sahabat.

Mereka yang sering mengontakmu, mungkin bukan karena mereka tidak punya kesibukan, tapi karena kamu ada di dalam hatinya...

Moral of the story:


Semua terjadi karena Kesalahpahaman...
Karena kurangnya tiap orang untuk Mengerti dan Memahami kondisi setiap situasi...
Tak banyak orang mau belajar tuk Berkembang, tuk Merubah Jiwa dan Hatinya jadi lebih baik

Source: cerita ini berikut dengan moral of the story nya saya copy paste seluruhnya dari seorang teman 

Renungan

⌣»̶✽̈ RENUNGAN  ✽̈«̶⌣
                   
Jika kekayaan bisa membuat orang bahagia, tentunya Adolf Merckle, orang terkaya dari Jerman, tidak akan menabrakkan badannya ke kereta api.

Jika ketenaran bisa membuat orang bahagia, tentunya Michael Jackson, penyanyi terkenal di USA, tidak akan meminum obat tidur hingga overdosis.

Jika kekuasaan bisa membuat orang bahagia, tentunya G. Vargas, presiden Brazil, tidak akan menembak jantungnya sendiri.

Jika kecantikan bisa membuat orang bahagia, tentunya Marilyn Monroe, artis cantik dari USA, tidak akan meminum alkohol dan obat depresi hingga overdosis.

Jika kesehatan bisa membuat orang bahagia, tentunya Thierry Costa, dokter terkenal dari Perancis, tidak akan bunuh diri, akibat sebuah acara di televisi.

Ternyata, bahagia atau tidaknya hidup seseorang itu, bukan ditentukan oleh seberapa kayanya, tenarnya, cantiknya, kuasanya, sehatnya atau sesukses apapun hidupnya.

Tapi yang bisa membuat seseorang itu bahagia adalah dirinya sendiri... mampukah ia mau mensyukuri semua yang sudah dimilikinya dalam segala hal.

"Kalau kebahagiaan bisa dibeli, pasti orang-orang kaya akan membeli kebahagiaan itu. dan kita akan sulit mendapatkan kebahagiaan karena sudah diborong oleh mereka."

"Kalau kebahagiaan itu ada di suatu tempat, pasti di belahan lain di bumi ini akan kosong karena semua orang akan ke sana berkumpul di mana kebahagiaan itu berada ."

Untungnya kebahagiaan itu berada di dalam hati setiap manusia.
Jadi kita tidak perlu membeli atau pergi mencari kebahagiaan itu.

Yang kita butuhkan adalah HATI yang BERSIH dan IKHLAS serta PIKIRAN yang JERNIH, maka kita bisa menciptakan rasa BAHAGIA itu kapan pun, di manapun dan dengan kondisi apapun."

KEBAHAGiAAN itu milik "Orang-orang yang dapat BERSYUKUR."

"JIKA KAMU TIDAK MEMILIKI APA YANG KAMU SUKAI, MAKA SUKAILAH APA YG KAMU MILIKI SAAT INI."

Quote from -unknown-

Happiness

"We don't decide when we are going to die. But we can decide how we are going to live. Ask yourself. Is it the life you want to live? is this the person you want to love? Decide. Breathe in, breathe out and decide..." Richard Webber, Grey's Anatomy

We do not have control of time. Of our own time. But we can choose what to do with our time. The person we want to be with. The things that matters. Those that will make us happy. Those that will keep our heart beating, to live those dreams. To smile those joyfulness. To cry those tears. 

Cause at the end of the day....It doesn't matter how much happiness we give to others....they might forget. It doesn't matter how much time we spend with others.....they might not remember. It doesn't matter how much sacrifies we make for the joy of others.....they might take it for granted. 

But at the end of the day.....it matters how much happiness we give to ourself, how much we listen to our own needs, or own feeling, our own longing for peacefulness. 

Cause at the end of the day, when we do things makes us happy, then all of our actions and choices will come from the place of happiness. Including those that we choose to give and sacrifice for others. To live our life for us, not for others. To be happy for us, and then for others. To believe in our own dreams and to live it without having to live other people's dreams. 

Have trust and trust deeply. That what we need, will always be given.

Where are you know

All alone tonight im calling out your name. Somewhere deep inside this part of you remains, Images of love take me back in time. I don't know how it started. Or why it ever had to end

Something stepped inside. We didn't let it in. It's keeping us apart. Where are you now

Where are you now. Someone there tonight.Holding what was mine. Where are you now. You wonder where i am. Are you really feeling fine

Going through my life without you by my side. You're the only thing that keeps going through my mind. And nothing that i do can take the place of you........

That is song by Jimmy Harnen

I love that song...

I remember 1 years after that song be released,

we had been met each other again in the same Uni after so many years,

looked back to that time, when were teenager we have met each other

i looked at your eyes from the door of my class room every wednesday

you stand in front of my classroom with so many words reflected in your eyes

you looked at my eyes...

you knew that i looked at you with so many words through my eyes

i knew that you looked at me with so many words through your eyes

we talked each other in a couple of minutes through our eyes

there's no single words spoken out from our mouth

we spoke through our eyes only

yes, we did it every Wednesday...

that was so great memory about us

When you graduated from jr high school, i lose everything

i looked at that class..

i hope that we can talked each other like we did it for so many years

but nothing left there...

there is only memory which left there

i wish we can meet each other again, if we luck

that my first love...if you want to know it

the first love with sad ending..

4 years after, God has so good to us. We met each other again at the same Uni

we started again our weekly routine conversation..

the conversation through our eyes....

i didn't understand why we were so happy at that time

we did it again and again

till one day we spoke through our eyes and mouth

we really spoke not only using our eyes but also our mouth

we were so happy...

but again...the destiny was not friendly to us

the next chapter in our life had been started when we were a young professional

we started our own career in the different yield

you had introduced your business to me

you explained how good and how big is your business

you asked for advise on how to grow it more.......

but you has no patient to wait it...

you has no patient till that day came..

A day that you hope you can get everything from me

A day that you hope i can stand beside you with the same level of wealth

A day..............

and the chapter must be ended with the sad ending

no more warm conversation through eyes

no more warm conversation through mouth

no more warm hugs each other

no more warm held hands

no more...............

i can find you but i wont

i can meet you but i dont want 

i can call you but there's no more words for you

.......but the love still there.......

a love with no ends

a love with no regret

a love with no hope

a love with tears

tears that cant be stopped

.............

Kutahu Engkau Tahu

Kutahu Engkau Tahu

Tak seharusnya kukatakan semua itu

Tak seharusnya kusampaikan semua itu

Tak seharusnya kubebani hidupmu dengan semua ini

Tak seharusnya kubuat kau menangis sedih

dengan semua yg terjadi padaku

Seharusnya kubuat kau bahagia

Seharusnya kubuat kau gembira

Seharusnya kubuat kau tidak memiliki beban

Seharusnya kusimpan semua yg kurasa

Kutahu engkau dapat merasakan apa yg kurasakan

Kutahu engkau tahu pada saat airmata ini terjatuh sekalipun engkau tak pernah melihatnya

Kutahu engkau tidak dapat aku bohongi sekalipun kebohongan itu adalah kebohongan untuk kebaikanmu

Kutahu engkau merasakan kasih sayang tulusku untukmu

Kutahu engkau tulus menyayangiku

Kutahu engkau selalu ajak ku turut serta

Kutahu terkadang engkau memberikan alasan kepadaku agar aku menjauh

Kutahu terkadang engkau memberikan alasan kepadaku agar aku tak mengetahui kesedihanmu

Kutahu terkadang engkau memberikan alasan kepadaku agar aku tidak sedih

Kutahu terkadang engkau tidak sanggup berbagi cerita kepedihanmu kepadaku hanya karena engkau tak mau melihat aku sedih lebih daripada kesedihan yg kau rasakan

Kutahu semuanya……..sekalipun terdengar mustahil bagi orang lain

namun Tuhan memberikan bisikan hati kepadaku

Kurasakan apa yg engkau rasakan

Kurasakan apa yg sedang engkau alami

Kurasakan kesedihan dan kegembiraanmu

Sekalipun itu tiada kata terucap darimu untukku

Aku menyayangi engkau dengan tulus

Aku menyayangi engkau dengan segenap hati dan jiwaku

Aku menyayangi engkau tanpa syarat

Aku menyayangi engkau sebagaimana adanya engkau

Aku menyayangi engkau andaikan engkau berubah

Aku menyayangi engkau andaikan engkau berusaha untuk menjauhkan diri dariku

Engkau mengajariku cara menghargai hidup

Engkau mengajariku cara membaca intuisi

Engkau mengajariku cara menghargai orang lain

Engkau mengajariku cara menghargai cinta dan kasih sayang

Engkau mengajariku cara agar aku tak selalu menggunakan logika saja

Engkau mengajariku cara menggunakan hati

Aku sedih karena ku tak mampu menghapus kesedihanmu

Aku sedih karena ku tak mampu selalu berada di sisimu untuk menghapus buliran demi buliran air mata yang jatuh membasahi bumi di tiap malam dan dini hari

Aku sedih karena ku tak mampu menggantikanmu tuk menjalaninya

Aku sedih karena ku tak mampu memberikan kebahagiaan sejati

Aku sedih karena ku tak mampu ……….

Terimakasih atas semuanya

Terimakasih atas segala yang sudah engkau berikan

Terimakasih atas segala kepercayaan yang engkau berikan

Terimakasih atas waktumu yang sangat berharga untukku

Terimakasih atas kesempatan yang engkau berikan

Terimakasih atas kasih sayang tulus yang tiada hentinya

Terimakasih atas doa tulus yang selalu engkau panjatkan untukku

Terimakasih ………..semuanya

Terimakasih tidaklah cukup untuk mewakili apa yang ada di hati ini

Terimakasih tidaklah cukup untuk menyampaikan semuanya

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk saling menyayangi

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk saling menghargai

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk selalu bersama apapun yang terjadi

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk saling berbagi segala kesedihan

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk saling berbagi segala kebahagiaan

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk tidak ada lagi buliran buliran airmata

Janji kita berdua adalah untuk tidak pernah mengingkari janji kita berdua

I love you more than I can be. You love me more than you can be. Let me go into your life, and I will let you go into my life, let me feel what you feel, let me do all for you coz for that-God gave me my life and bring us together.

Note: for someone very special in my life that God sent to me on 21 Nov’2011, make us close and closer on 7 January 2012, someone that we talked to and cried together at 19 December 2012 on 1-2 o’clock in the morning

This is I Promise You

#True love is not possesive, but it will encourage, caring, give positive direction and positive influence#

Life is a mystery. Life is just like oceans with the waves, sky with thunder, that is our life created by God, a life full with happiness, joy, prosperity, laugh, sad, tears, fear, brave, friends, enemies. God has His own plan when He introduces each of us to fill in this life. Something that we cant expect, we cant create it. But just believe in Him that His plan is best for us. He creates us with our own strenghness and weakness but still not perfect, with the 'togetherness' - our life become perfect. That's way God introduces us in this Universe to make this Universe more perfect and brightly

Whatever life is, since the day we met, I  have promised to myself that i will be your guardian since that day and forever...

This is I promise you...

When the visions around you, Bring tears to your eyes and all that surround you, are secrets and lies I'll be your strength, I'll give you hope, Keeping your faith when it's gone..

The one you should call, was standing here all along..And I will take You in my arms and hold you right where you belong till the day my life is through This I promise you This I promise you. I've loved you forever, In lifetimes before...This is I promise you...now and forever...

The worst situation had been gone through successfuly, now is just a dust in the forest,it just a coral&small rock in the sea, we'll pass this test if we face it with no fear and we do it together. There is nothing impossible for us if we believe in God, no matter what and how. He will give us the best

God will always give new chances in our life. We just need to realize it and appreciate it. Do our best to value those chances. Keep the HOPE, and FAITH still alive with us now and forever. This is God promises to You

Note: I love you forever, no matter what. You know how deep my love is....

Friendship is a Priceless Gift

Friendship is a Priceless Gift
It cannot be bought or sold
But it value is far greater
than a mountain made of Gold.
For Gold is cold and lifeless
it can neither see nor hear
and in the time of trouble
It is powerless to cheer
It has no ears to listen
nor heart to understand
It cannot bring you comfort
or reach out a helping hand
So when you ask God for a Gift
be thankfull if He sends...
not diamond, pearls, or riches
but the love of Real True Friend
~Helen Steiner RIce~

We meet by a chance that we could not find it nor buy it (how rich we are...true friend and true friendship could not be bought) and turn into a friend. God has His own plans when He introduces someone turn into our life. He may sends someone just for a short period or longer period, or forever. And now is our destiny keeps us close each others making our friendship grow more with the passing time. Why i call it's our destiny?? coz if our destiny says that we could not be a friend nor if the destiny says that our friendship is no longer there, even if there are so hard efforts to keep it alive-it could not work, coz He already plan it for us.

However, it does not mean bad if He send friends only for a short time period. Nothing is negative in His plan. We have to think it deeply to understand on His plan. It is not easy to find and to understand. But just believe that time will tell us the truth and the meaning of all those.

None of us can say nor claim that we are an Angel for others. Even if so, we say that to the new people and hope with that 'word' we can be their friend, i dont believe it could works. That is not a 'magic word' in this Universe nowadays. None of us can do this!!!. Only God can do it. It will be wise, if we do not say or assume that he or she claims themselves to be our Angel just to attract our attention to become their friend. This is totally wrong perseption. None of us have Rights to do this.

Friendship is a choice, it is free from hatred, it's a freedom for us to decide based on our destiny and our understanding of God's plans, it is not coercion. No one can enforce a friendship.

I would like to say:

Walk with me when your heart needs accompany and trust me, take my hand when you feel alone-even if nothing i can do for you, turn to me when you need someone to learn and share together with.....nothing i can promise to you except i always be with you in all your sadness time instead your happilly time"

For me: Real and True Friendship is a rare relationship in this Universe nowadays. That the Treasure given by God more than diamond nor pearl that need to be flushed and fertilizer it with love and heart everytime, everywhere to keep it alive and shining along with the Sun shinning which never forget to come into our life every morning till afternoon and shining along with the Moon which will replace the Sun in enlightening our night to be more brightly.

~Please bear in mind that I have no rights to claim myself as an 'Angel' in someone life~

~Respect people who find time for us in their busy life and schedule, BUT Love people who never look at their schedule and time when we need them...that is the Real and True Friendship~

ps note: dedicate this to my real and true friend who always be with me in my insomnia time:) everynight....love you, thanks for your value time buddy:)

Think first, act later

Think First and Act Later

As the above subject, as a human i think the important thing in life is Think First and Act Later not the other way.

Once day, Gabriel introduce Jennifer to Donna and  Donna accepted her as my new friend. Donna doesn't know who is Jennifer, what is her background and so on and so on. But Donna doesn't care as a people who try to have positive thinking in life, in her mind she should not asking to much except just to accepted her friendship. Their friendship is a vitrtual friendship as Jennifer was not living at London.

One day she is so kind and made effort to come to London to meet all her virtual friends and made it become a real friend instead of virtual friends. They are so happy coz finally they can made this virtual friendship become a real friendship. A short trip among them was really valuable for all of them. Since Jennifer was not living at London, she bring all the stuffs as a gift for everybody. They appreciate on her efforts.

Long and short after they met each other, the friendship was getting close among the member of this friendship cycle. Each of us are respect each other and tried to help friend who needed assistance. Everyone in this cyrcle was expecting to have a real and ever lasting friendship.

One day Jenifer got an idea to have a holiday together again and she got her own schedule already and asked for others to follow her schedule. unfortunately, her friends could not made it to macth on her schedule. She was angry and without asking for the reasons she was upset with her friends. She then wrote her mind in the piece of paper. This is the way she tried to relieve her upset. She has never though that once day her words in that piece of paper was read by her friend and trigger a back ball to her.

Her friend who has read that paper is surpraise but she kept quite and questioned what happen with Jennifer. But due to her tight schedule, Donna has never got time to ask and forgot it already coz Donna think that there was no issue came from her side. Till one day, Jenifer asked Donna whether Donna got mad to her due to that paper. Donna surpraise on this, and though what is the relationship on all of these. Donna did not get an answer. But in Donna's heart she keeps hoping that their friendship can be back to the initial time, to the real friendship without any misunderstanding and intention to break it.

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There always a good chance to fix all the wrong ways of thinking and behaviour happen with and or without certain intention on that, as long as there is positive action coming from. It may takes time and efforts but no harm to fix it as earlier as we can. And the moral of the above story is: Think First and Act Later not the other way.

ps note: the above story is fiction.If there is similarity of name and place-there is no such intention to do that.

The real Friendship

Robin Thicke
Lost Without U
Evolution of Robin Thicke
Im lost without u
Cant help myself
How does it feel
to know that I love u baby
Im lost without u
Cant help myself
How does it feel
to know that I love u baby
Tell me how u love me more
And how u think Im sexy baby
That u dont want nobody else
U dont want this guy u dont want that guy u wanna
Touch yourself when u see me
Tell me how u love my body
And how I make u feel baby
U wanna roll with me u wanna hold with me
U wanna stay warm and get out of the cold with me
I just love 2 hear u say it
It makes a man feel good baby
Tell me u depend on me
I need 2 hear it.......

One day I got this song from the One that I really respect, caring and love. Before that, I even do not know this song. Even though this title of song is "Lost Without You" but the song itself is not a sad song. That is a very nice song. I put it in all my phone including Ipod :)

Then i wrote to her but i think the message was not reached due to error in the social media that i used. I wrote as follows:

"When you have nothing to be offered (cos you are nobody)...only honest, trustworthy,caring and love that you can offer, but if Others can accept you as one of the people that they love and caring too-that called True and Real Friendship"

For me: True and Real Friend is always be with us in every single moment that our friend need it, no matter how difficult it will be, whenever and where ever we are, with no conditional and no reasons.

Thanks to let me 'in' your life to become one of your true and real friend, which we can share on all life perspective with no fear that each other will cheat on us one day. Thanks to love me as one of your sister. Also thanks to teach me to use 'heart'

Dedicated to: my sister that i love and care with no reasons:)

U Make My World More Colorful:)

#Chorus…..You make my world so colorful
I never had it so good
My love I thank you for all the love
You gave to me…..# by Daniel Sahuleka

People come and go in our life with reasons - to become family, colleague, business partners, friends, real friends, victims etc. Sometimes we can have positive thinking of that reasons but sometime we may have negative thinking of it. The negative thinking may be triggered by the careful behavior or coz we have not enough time to think it deeply or may be coz we don’t care on it.

Some people come and go easily in our life, some people come easily but hardly go from our life, some people hardly come and easy go, some is hardly come and also hardly go. Why this kind of thing can happen in life? Why there is no forever and ever relationship in life?

God has His own plans for us. Whatever the reasons are, God’s plans are the right and the best plans for us, even though may be God’s plans are different with ours.  God has His own time for us, which may different with ours. Whatever it is, just believe it that God has His best plans for us at His right time.

An attraction can happen spontaneously but lasting relation takes work . Hence we have to understand that we have to participate on it once God sending people in to our life. We must appreciate all people that God sends to us, try to start the relationship with positive thinking and we should not take any advantage on it. For me-Gives is better than TakesJ

One night I ever thought that my life is so plain, I called it “no color at all”, from morning to another morning with all constant events in life, while I see many people’s life are so colorful which makes me jealousJ .

I remember that night I told one of friend on that thought.  And her respond is quite surprise for me, she said: your life will not plain coz I was here for you. This respond make me realize that sometime we even don’t have correct thinking of our life, we do not appreciate our life.

God sends best people to paint life become more colorful. They contribute in painting it by their best in my life. Thanks for that All!!! J  will do the same for your lifeJ.

O ya, I ever wrote in FB and Twitter: whatever people would like to say and think that they make our life better than before, our hearth will know who should we thankful to. When I published this thought, I did not mention any names coz I believe that people who I refer to, realize that he/she is the one that I referring toJ  

Thanks to read this noteJ This is just a note from me that I write it from the deepest of my heart about my feelingJ. I am not an author, and I think I am not an expert in writing but I am really best in writing of tax advice only J J

Notes:

-         1.  This note is dedicated to all my friends

-       2.    Thanks to TP who ever dedicated her writing in her blog for me-sorry just realize it after 1 year being posted J

3. Special thanks to cici ZZ who has been chosen to become my sister, my best friend, to care of meJ,who make my life more colorfulJ now. You are the fabulous Bday’s present from God to me this yearJ. 


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Friendship

Seorang tetangga menyebarkan gosip mengenai tetangganya. Dalam beberapa hari saja seluruh lingkungan mengetahui cerita tersebut.Tetangga yang dibicarakan tersebut akhirnya juga mengetahui fitnah yang tersebar tersebut.

Beberapa hari kemudian, orang yang menyebar luaskan gosip tersebut menyadari bahwa ternyata gosip yang dia sebarkan memang tidak benar adanya. Dia menyesal lalu datang kepada orang bijaksana untuk mencari tahu apa yang harus dia lakukan untuk memperbaiki kesalahannya tersebut.

Kata orang bijak kepadanya: pergilah ke pasar, belilah kemoceng kemudian dalam perjalanan pulang cabutilah bulu kemoceng tersebut dan buanglah satu per satu di sepanjang jalan pulang tersebut.

Meski terkejut mendengar nasehat tersebut, namun si penytebar gosip tetap melakukannya karena dia ingin memperbaiki kesalahannya. keesokan harinya, si penyebar gosip melapor kepada orang bijaksana bahwa dia telah melaksanakan nasehat orang tersebut.

Orang bijak berkata: sekarang pergilah dan kumpulkan kembali semua bulu kemoceng yang kau buang kemarin dan bawa kepadaku. Orang tersebut melakukannya dengan menyusuri jalan kemarin, namun angin telah melemparkan bulu bulu tersebut ke segala arah. Setelah berusaha mengumpulkan dengan bersusah payah, dia kembali kepada orang bijak dengan tiga helai bulu saja.

Kata orang bijak:lihat kan? sangat mudah melempar sesuatu namun tak kan mungkin untuk mengumpulkannya kembali dengan utuh.

Pesan moral si orang bijak:

1. hidup mati serseorang dikuasai lidah, siapa suka menggemakannya, dia akan memakan buahnya. Lidah yang lembut adalah pohon kehidupan. Namun lidah yang jahat adalah lidah yang melukai hati orang lain.

2. Kejujuran itu mahal harganya dan tidak setiap orang dapat menghargai suatu kejujuran. Manakala kejujuran telah dinomorduakan, maka akan ada harga mahal yang harus dibayar

3. apabila kita tidak ingin ada bekas luka, maka janganlah kita memaku paku di hati dan mencabutnya kembali. karena paku yang sudah dipakukan dan dicabut dari tempatnya akan menimbulkan luka dalam yang tidak bisa disembuhkan oleh berlalunya waktu kecuali kita berusaha untuk menambalnya kembali dengan bahan lain. luka itu akan tertambal, namun sudah tidak bisa kembali normal.

4. Tidak perlu menyimpan suatu kemarahan hanya karena disebabkan oleh adanya kebohongan dimana kejujuran telah dinomor duakan. Biarlah waktu yang akan membantu untuk menghilangkan amarah tersebut.

5. Sahabat yang baik adalah sahabat yang senantiasa ada di kala kita susah dan selalu jujur kepadanya. Sahabat yang baik adalah sahabat yang selalu mengingatkan kepada sahabatnya untukk tidak melakukan hal2 yang tidak benar.

6. Seorang sahabat akan memukul kita dengan maksud baik, namun dia tidak akan menggunting dalam lipatan

Dipost di FB tgl 28 June 2010

Sebuah Luka

Suatu hari sekelompok anak sibuk merancang suatu perjalanan yang menyenangkan.mereka berencana untuk pergi ke tempat yang indah dimana belum pernah mereka kunjungi. Tiba2 mereka teringat kepada sahabatnya. Kemudian mereka sepakat untuk turut serta mengajak sahabat tersebut. Sahabat tersebut gembira, namun dia berkata janganlah pergi di bulan juni, juli dan oktober karena dia sedang disibukkan oleh pekerjannya. Sekelompok anak tersebut kemudian setuju dg usul dari sahabat tersebut.

Suatu hari tanpa disangka2, salah satu anak dari sekelompok anak tadi menyadarai bahwa ternyata sahabat yg diajak turut serta tadi telah menambil ide2 mereka dan merancang perjalanannya sendiri dengan orang lain. Oleh karena takut diketahui oleh sekelompok anak tersebut, maka sahabat itupun terpaksa memberitahukan kepada salah satu anak tersebut bahwa dia terpaksa dan dipaksa pergi oleh temannya.dan dia memberitahukan bahwa kepergiannya itu adalah mendadak tanpa direncanakan sebelumnya.
Anak tersebut begitu terkejut dengan info tersebut dan berusaha untuk memahami sahabatnya itu.namun setelah dikaji lebih lanjut, maka anak tersebut sangat kecewa dengan perbuatan sahabatnya itu.anak tersebut kecewa bukan karena dia tidak diajak turut serta oleh sahabat, namun dia baru menyadari bahwa sahabatnya dimana dia selalu mengalah ternyata sudah tega membohonginya. Keesokan harinya terkuaklah fakta bahwa si sahabat telah merancang semuanya setelah mengambil ide dari sekelompok anak tersebut.
Anak tersebut demikian terkejutnya saat dia tahu bahwa sahabatnya telah mendapatkan ijin satu minggu sebelum kepergian sahabat tersebut.sadarlah anak itu bahwa sahabat yg demikian dihormati dan disayangi itu telah tega berbohong kepadanya. Anak itu menanyakan kepada sahabatnya mengapa engkau tega melakukan semua ini. Jawab sahabat itu kepadanya: aku terpaksa krn sibuk sehingga belum sempat memberi kabar selain itu ijinpun belum didapat dengan pasti.

Anak tersebut demikian hancur hatinya krn ia tau bahwa sahabatnya telah mempertahankan kebohongannya.dia memaafkan sahabatnya tersebut, namun hatinya hancur, sehingga dia memutuskan untuk pergi jauh dari sahabat tersebut sampai dia mampu untuk menyembuhkan luka bathinnya tersebut.

it has been posted at FB on 29 June 2010

New Year Eve 2012-God will always lead our way,just trust it!!

Sebuah kilas balik dan renungan

2011 adalah tahun penuh dengan memori. Tahun penuh kejutan. Tahun penuh dengan kesedihan dan kegembiraan, tahun penuh dengan gejolak, emosi, pembuktian diri, pencapaian ambisi . Tahun dimana penuh dengan situasi dan kondisi yg harus dihadapi dan mengharuskan membuat keputusan-keputusan berani dalam hidup.Tidak semua keputusan yang diambil selama tahun 2011 adalah benar, namun dengan motivasi dan pembuktian diri-Puji Tuhan, keputusan tersebut menjadi benar adanya (dan sebagian mudah-mudahan pun menjadi benar adanya).

Masalah datang silih berganti bagaikan  ombak besar menghantam batu karang yang terlihat kokoh berdiri, gelombang laut pasang surut menunjukkan bahwa tidak ada yang abadi, tidak ada kondisi yang tetap tanpa adanya perubahan.

Teriknya matahari terkadang membakar kulit hingga terbakar parah, hujan deras kerap datang disertai badai yang hadir tanpa diharapkan. Namun harus diyakini bahwa semua hujan deras dan badai hebat itu akan berakhir-akan ada saat dimana itu semua berakhir tergantikan oleh sinar matahari yang menyejukkan.

Awal tahun 2011 adalah saat dimana ada satu peristiwa yang menyulut emosi dan perasaan. Saat dimana kamu berbuat sangat baik tanpa pamrih, saat dimana kepercayaan diberikan, namun semua itu terasa sia-sia saat kamu dihianati, saat dimana pertanyaan dilontarkan, namun dibantah, tidak ada pengakuan sama sekali atas kekeliruan yang telah dilakukan. Pun tiada maaf yang terlontarkan. Hening tiada terkira sehingga berakhir dengan satu keputusan kekanak2an. Keputusan yang akhirnya dirasakan oleh pihak tersebut meskipun tiada komunikasi yang dilakukan. Namun demikian, tetap tak ada kata maaf yang dilontarkan padahal sangat didambakan. Waktu bergulir dengan cepat diiringi dengan kesadaran akan betapa berharganya sebuah persahabatan yg harus dipertahankan-prinsip bahwa “mengalah tidak berarti kalah” pun dilakukan tanpa pamrih.

Sebuah kejadian yang membuat luka di hati pun terjadi di pertengahan tahun 2011, dimana sebuah perasaan tertipu pun terjadi-yang menghasilkan tindakan emosi yang menciptakan serangkaian kejadian-kejadian berikut yang menguras perhatian, hati dan perasaan sampai akhir tahun 2011. Pun di malam New Year Eve ini, keputusan final belum dilakukan.

Di penghujung tahun, terdapat kejadian yang tidak pernah disangka. Tuhan mempertemukan seseorang yang tidak pernah disangka dan diduga. It’s amazing, Tuhan selalu punya rencana yang tidak dimengerti oleh manusia. Hanya melalui sebuah kejadian yang sangat simple, ini semua terjadi. Sebuah Persahabatan yang tidak terjangkau sebelum (serasa bagai pungguk merindukan bulan), Persahabatan yang terasa sangat tidak mungkin, namun merupakan sebuah Persahabatan yang sekarang sungguh terjadi yang penuh makna.

Dengan rangkaian kejadian-kejadian selama 2011, bahwa Tuhan sangat baik, meskipun terkadang kita tidak mengerti apa yang Dia lakukan terhadap kita, meskipun dalam keadaan terpuruk kita selalu menyalahkanNya, meskipun waktu Dia dengan waktu kita sangat berbeda, keinginanNya dan keinginan kita tidak sejalan, namun pasti Dia selalu memiliki rencana yang baik untuk kita. Kita hanya perlu berdoa, berharap, tetap semangat. Keep the good Faith.

Don’t waste your time looking back on what you have lost. Move on as life is not meant to be travelled backwards.

Let’s end this year 2011 (let it become a memory in mind and heart) with grateful hope and wish that all happiness and joy, success and friendship that have been provided to us by God will remain with us, and be ready to receive all the happiness, joy and prosperity, greater success, treasure friendship in the coming year 2012.

My Lovely Quotes

Work your hardest. Think your smartest. Dream your biggest. Be your greatest. Love you fullest. Smile your brightest! @ihatequotes


Life's too short to worry about the little things. Enjoy what you have today, not what you might get tomorrow @ihatequotes


Don't cry over the past, it's gone. Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived. Live in the present & make it beautiful. #ihatequotes

When we pray, God hears more than we say, answers more than we ask, gives more than we imagine..in His own time & His own way.. #ihatequotes

Don't let people bring you down.Stand up for your right, show them what you got. You have right, to do what you want @infogadis


when you hit ROCK BOTTOM there are no other way but to BOUNCED BACK UP! so consider this a a BLESSING @zarazettirazr


Sometimes we only see what we want to see and we missed what He would like to show to us. We made mistakes, Him Never! @zarazettirazr


When we're in trouble we said: God where r U?He is there all the time within ourself.But we didn't realize coz we are occupied with problems @zarazettirazr


It's Believe that gets is there - dragonfly the movie - when u have faith, u will see beyond your sight @zarazettirazr


I never ask U for anything because i believe U. That U know what I need more than myself and U will give what I deserve. Nite all @zarazettirazr


When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life you have a thousand reasons to smile :) @andriewongso


Best friend is the one you could sit on a porch, never saying a word & then walk away feeling that was the best conversation you’ve had @ihatequotes


Tears can sometimes be more special than smiles, for smiles can be given to anyone, but tears are only shed for people we love @ihatequotes


If you believe, not necessarily ur wish will come true, but at least ur life will be easier....and hope is always there @zarazettirazr


Those who never experience sadness will measure their happiness from other's achievement and will be forever looking for that happiness @zarazettirazr


Happiness is for us to share, while sadness is a learning process to understand the true meaning of happiness @zarazettirazr


The source of happiness must come within yourself because you cant control what's in the outside and it will lead you to frustration @zarazettirazr


The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage. The secret of courage is believe @zarazettirazr


You cannot give what you don’t have. You cannot forgive what you can’t forget. But you can love even if you’re not being loved back @ihatequotes


Every teardrop is precious, u can never pick them up & put them back to ur eyes. So make sure that if u drop some, it’s worth crying for @ihatequotes


We Come To Love Not By Finding a Perfect Person, But By Learning To See An Imperfect Person Perfectly @eileenrachman


Dont be too long crying over anything. Things u're crying about right now sometimes are things you'll be grateful for later. -@AmandaAdriani

When you let go of what your haters sent you, you have room enough to receive what God has already given you @ihatequotes


5 simple rules to be happy: Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less @ihatequotes


God always has something for you: a key for every problem,a light for every shadow, a relief for every sorrow & a plan for every tomorrow @thenotebook


Don't block your dreams by allowing fear to grow bigger than faith. Be brave! Have faith and move on! #ihatequotes

Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still feel you can go on @tracyagustina


All people have problems. Life is unfair, but it's unfair to everyone. So, life's fair. Everybody just need to fight for it! #ihatequotes

Dont worry about what people think about you, because they arent thinking about you  @eileenrachman

Sometimes we only see what we want to see and we missed what He would like to show to us. We made mistakes, Him Never! @zarazettirazr

By @ivanna_ve

All decisions that have been taken, has consequences. No one can control it when they made decisions.Hence, some may resulted regrets at end. Too many considerations will create confuse,confusing will create no decision at all.without any consideration,decision may not correct


If we forgive something easily cause God teaches that, and wish there is no similar thing happen,but it happen again and again. So how?


It's not easy to fix heart that are being hurt,but does it worth to cry on that?understand that crying will not provide solution.but  if tears just come out of our control, does it ok?I think so-cause we are human.no one as strong as God whohasnever cry on his suffering


Don't' trust to money even money is important, as money can bring u in the deep sh*t


Even in the desperate situation, we must have our self esteem. We can lose everything but we must not lose our pride and self esteem


Even in the desperate situation, we must let God to lead our way and believe in Him that nothing is impossible for us if He gives us way out


Sometimes we need heavy rain to be able for us to cry without let people know what inside of our heart

At certain point&condition;, sometimes we lost our track due to sadness, if that so, should rationality or emotional must be used to take decision?


If u feel that things go wrong,pls remember that God always be with u even His time is nit the same w/us but His is the Right one